/ Friday, October 24, 2008
"Dun confuse courage with taking up arms, and cowardice with retreating"
read it some where recently, but forgot le...
Anyways, found that this sentence really meant a lot and its really practical in our daily lives.
Why do we have so many conflicts? wwhy do we constanly fight among each other?
have we stopped and thought about this?
Conflicts are inevitable, conflicts allows us to express our view points...
But isit always necessary for us to put insist on our view points?
why must ppl always wanna win? why must we always want to insist that our view points are correct?
Why must we always be the best?
cant we listen to others for a bit?
cant we just shut our mouths and make good use of our ears, they are there for a purpose...
"Im always correct
Im always the best
They are just stupid retards who dun understand me"
People have these mentalities that will eventually cut themselves off
from empathising with others,
from trying to understand wad others are going through
If we can just pause and think.. listen.. and not use our mouths so much, we will understand that
maybe their ideas are better
maybe my life isnt so shitty after all as there are others who are less fortunate
maybe they have a reason for shouting at me...
maybe they have a reason to be angry...
Well, when two parties insist on their own stand, sparks fly and wala most ppl have to bring in violence.
To make sure that my view point is the best, i'll take u down, i'll defeat u
coz im correct, im justice and ur not, so i have the right to make u suffer...
lol...
while people are in the midst of arguing or fighting over whos right and who is wrong
we often neglect a few stuffies
- wads the point of showing that u r correct? isit worth fighting for? or isit just because u feel angry and wanna win, tats why u want to fight?
- Will this fight coz others to suffer for u?
- Will u regret fighting in the later part of ur life?
Sometimes, people get so heated up, they start fighting to prove tat they are better
they will rope in any excuse, any reasons, just show tat they hav a platform to pit their strengths against one another.
They forget about the people who will suffer, about the disadvantages involved
Then, most ppl fight already, then regret .. diaoz
This is the most retarded
If u want to fight,
then dun regret
even if it means costing u the dearest things in life.
try thinking about the impact on others
before u start giving the first blow
But we dun really have to fight all the time...
"Dun confuse courage with taking up arms, and cowardice with retreating"
sometimes, backing out isnt a bad thing ^^
/Hopped!
11:03 PM
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